But first, a word from the CogNegro!
On second thought, I'm going to sit this one out. This is all you Ji! You can cash me oussah if you need me!-CgN
But wait !
The Back Stabber Conundrum aka : You know damn well you were always plotting!
By: Khalil Hamiduddin
To answer the question is it ok to date someone your friend has previously had dealings or relations with the answer is… Its complicated. Complicated as in did your friend die because then and only then does that in my best john legend voice GIVE ME THE GREEN LIIIIIIGHT.Now now now some of you may be asking but K what if they never slept together well see that falls into the grey area of you probably really weren’t dating then and you probably never even meet them while they “dated” (celibates sit in the corner y’all are the exception) Having said that don’t lie to yourself. You know you were always looking and scheming, plotting, maybe even threw a word or 2 in there to precipitate their demise or as I like to call them to borrow a rap phrase sneak dissing and "subliminals". See most people think it’s only the lonely and miserable friend who wants everyone else to be lonely and miserable with them nope nope nope. Giving bad advice
I bet you’ve had your boy say: What she doesn’t do what man I wouldn’t put up with that ish.
Or your sister from another mister say: Oh word he did what girl I don’t even know why you dealing with that fool.They are plotting. Smiling in your face but all the time they want to take your place…
So let me know those of you in the backstabber conundrum what’s the end game are you going to be upfront with your “friend” and admit their ex is your soul mate and you're planning on moving to Atlanta to solve all of your problems.Or will you cut your friend off never tell them and they can find out when you post the engagement ring or beach side wedding photos of your magical romance.